Think it al through..

Sex is a powerful tool in this society. Women use it as leverage in certain situations and pretend it is somehing it is not and men, well men are just plain silly over it. There are too many misconceptions when it comes to men and sex, and women and sex. People believe that all women take sex more emotonal than men and thats not always the case. It is a scenerio that society wishes us to believe but in reality it is not the case. Men will not sleep with anyone as it is said. Unknown to many women but the majority of men despise a whore, slut, prostitute or whatever term is appropriate to use.
I remember being in this situation with an old significant other. What we had was the most incredible times of my life. I truly am still in love with this woman, however she cheated on me and in the midst of her cheating ways she contracted an std (thankfully I did not contract this disease due to my heavy condom use). Of course knowing she cheated altered everything between us. Now I believe that people are entitled to sleep with whom they wish under these two very important rules... One being that you are single and the second being that you use protection at all times.. These two things she did not follow and I realized how physically turned off I became with her. Her std is gnetal herpes and it is something there is absolutely no cure for. Of course the doctors say if I chose to use a condom there is a good chance I wont contract it but would I be willing to take this chance for love? Is love that great that I would chance my life of seual pleasures and health for love? No fucking way!!!
I made the attempt to be friends and even cuddle with this person, we still try to laugh with one another but no matter what I can not even muster a slight erection in her pressence.
Men will not sleep with just anyone....
Although I have been with scores of women I must admit that I have been a bit picky with my selection. Sex is great and even mood altering but would I insert my penis just about anywhere? Hell no!!
Aside from that topic I want to highlight what some people would do when good sex is incorporated in their life. One young lady I was involved with at one time became a bit possesive with the penis and even went as far as tattooing her vagina region to say "Mikey's Pussy". Of course I found it to be humorous and I wanted it to be flattering but it was sad and pathetic. I wanted to just hug this woman and tell her how foolish she was. We are in contact till this day and although we are no longer sexually involved, we remain good friends and understand that it was all a part of ifes experiences. The way she moved was wonderful... ahhhh the memories...
Another woman I was involved with was so involved against the advice of myself and the rules implemented (she lived with her man). She began to neglect her man his sexual rights in a relationship (both parties should have rights) and she would be so obvious in her actions as she now carried a small perfume in her bag (something she didnt do before to alter the smell) and she would carry a small bag of baby wipes (nuff said) and these were things her man was stumbling across.. She would come home with her hair unkempt and although she promised to be careful, she did not. I believe it was her way of trying to move on. I have came across so many confused women that enter the situation understanding the rules of engagement but change their tune when a new man enters their lives. I tell them, never leave the man you love for the man you like because the man you like will leave you for the one he loves.
People need to understand that if you re going to play the game of cheating on your significant other (and I do not recommend it) you have to remember a few things.....
Never alter your sex life for the worse, he will catch on...
Never use the same girlfriend for her bday night out twice in a year (lol.. yes someone does that)
Do not look for a reason to put him down now that you are getting side sex (you are not being taken serious, no matter what the side guy/girl says.. they know you are involved and could never trust you)
Do not put your heart on your vagina/penis because it is just sex.
I could go on and on but for today it will just be this.
Think about all the decisions you make thoroughly because no matter what your friends say (and do not listen to them, they do not have your best interest first) you are the one that has to deal with the consequences.. Ask my ex, she has genetal herpes for life and claims to regret the guy who gave it to her...